How Coaching Can Help You Make More Confident Decisions During Divorce


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The last two weeks have been extra special with our granddaughter spending them with my wife, Dawn and me. 💕

From morning giggles to running around the yard, her favorite thing has been picking her little yellow flowers from the nearby fields — a simple joy we’ll never forget.

Today we take her back home just in time to celebrate a big moment — she turns 2 on January 12, and we’ll be celebrating her mom, Kaitlyn, on January 10. Double birthdays, full hearts, and so grateful for every minute.


Taking Control During Divorce: How Coaching Can Help You Make More Confident Decisions

💬 From Episode 86

“The law is about 10% of anybody’s divorce. The other 90% is psychology, emotions, finances, family, and practical decisions.”

KAREN COVY

Divorce doesn’t have to be devastating.

It can be empowering when approached with clarity and the right support.

In this episode, I sit down with Karen Covy, divorce coach, attorney, and mediator, to explore how women can take control of the divorce process. We talk about choosing the right process for your situation, understanding your finances, and why preparation and strategy make all the difference in creating a smoother transition and stronger future.

Tune in to learn:

  • The importance of choosing the divorce process that best fits your goals and circumstances
  • Why most lawyers promote only the process they practice, and how coaching helps you find the right one for you
  • How planning early and understanding your financial picture can prevent years of regret
  • What it means to become the “CEO of your own divorce” and coordinate your full team
  • Practical first steps to start regaining confidence and clarity if you feel stuck or afraid to move forward
  • And more!

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👉 ​​What Issues Should I Consider At The Start Of The Year?

The start of the year is a great time for a financial check-up. In addition to reflecting back on the prior year, you may be particularly motivated in January to consider making financial resolutions for the future.

To help make a fresh start this year, we have created this checklist. It covers fundamental considerations, including:

  • Personal issues
  • Cash flow issues
  • Asset and debt issues
  • Tax issues
  • Insurance issues
  • Legal issues

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