Social Security: Essential Rules for Women and Divorcees


Good morning, Simply Retirement Community!

Welcome to the weekly newsletter that reminds us that retirement is not the end of the road; it is the start of a new journey.


Happy New Year—and welcome to 2026.

A new year often brings a mix of optimism and uncertainty, especially when it comes to money. And this year is no exception. There are several changes already in motion that will impact tax and retirement planning in 2026, and it’s completely normal to wonder how—or if—you should be adjusting your plans.

That’s precisely why we are here.

You’ll also notice something new this week—the first official photo of our entire team together: myself, Dawn, Eric, and Kaitlyn. Not our first family photo ever 😀 (trust me, there are plenty of those), but the first time we’ve all been together in this way, starting the year as a team focused on the work ahead.

We’re genuinely excited about this next chapter and the impact we expect to have for the people we serve—helping you navigate taxes, retirement income, and long-term planning with clarity and confidence, even as the rules continue to evolve.

As always, my goal is to break things down in a clear, practical way—so you can spend less time worrying about the “what ifs” and more time enjoying the life you’ve worked so hard to build.

Here’s to a steady, informed start to the new year—and to what’s ahead in 2026.

💬 From Episode 85:

“If you don’t know the rules, you don’t know what you’re entitled to—and that’s how people leave money on the table.”

ERIC BLAKE

Social Security: Essential Rules for Women and Divorcees

Understanding Social Security can feel complicated, especially when life events like divorce or widowhood come into play.

In this episode, I join Karen Covy on her podcast, Off The Fence, to walk through the rules that often matter most for women.

We discuss how full retirement age works, how spousal, ex-spousal, and survivor benefits are determined, and what to know about the 10-year marriage rule. Our conversation also covers the Social Security Fairness Act and how it affects certain workers with pensions.

Together, we outline key considerations that can help listeners better understand their options when planning for future income.

Tune in to learn:

  • How full retirement age determines your benefit amount and why this number is critical to every Social Security decision
  • The difference between spousal, ex-spousal, and survivor benefits, and how remarriage affects your eligibility
  • The 10-year marriage rule for divorced individuals, and what documentation you need to claim benefits
  • How the Social Security Fairness Act eliminated penalties that primarily affected women with pensions
  • Strategic timing considerations when you're still working and approaching retirement age
  • And more!

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Related Links & Resources


The Retirement Toolbox

👉 2026 Social Security Quick Reference Guide​​

Our annually updated Social Security Quick Reference Guide contains lots of handy facts and figures in an easy-to-read format. Information includes cost-of-living adjustments, a breakdown of actuarial reduction, Medicare premiums, and more.

This quick reference guide provides key Social Security numbers to help you in planning. The percentages shown here are applied to the primary insurance amount (PIA) of the worker on whose earnings record benefits are being claimed. The PIA can be found on the worker’s Social Security statement. It is an estimate of the benefit amount if claimed at full retirement age (FRA). You can obtain your latest statement by opening an account at ssa.gov/myaccount.


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Eric Blake, CFP®

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