Finding Your Financial Footing After Life's Biggest Transitions


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Welcome to the weekly newsletter that reminds us that retirement is not the end of the road; it is the start of a new journey.


What’s the one thing your family still gets way too much pleasure out of teasing you about?

This year marks the 50th anniversary of Rocky, and it just so happened that a full Rocky marathon was on this past weekend. In our house, that movie has been a long-running joke—specifically with my wife and kids. Anytime Rocky was on over the years, especially around Thanksgiving, it was pretty much non-negotiable that we were watching it.

I didn’t exactly help my case. As a kid, I leaned all the way in and even had a Rocky-themed birthday party, which has given my family plenty of material ever since. 🥊

To this day, if Rocky comes on, I get the look—the one that says, “Here we go again.”

So now I’ll turn it back to you—what’s the one story or habit your family still loves to bring up, no matter how much time has passed? Or what's a fun "guilty" pleasure you still enjoy today from many years ago?

💬 From Episode 88

“There is no shame or judgment in not knowing a different language. When we reframe money as learning a language, it becomes okay to not know and to start where you are.”

TONY STEUER

Finding Your Financial Footing After Life's Biggest Transitions with Tony Steuer

Major life transitions can leave you feeling lost and uncertain about your financial future.

How do you move forward when everything feels overwhelming? What questions should you even be asking when you're navigating divorce, widowhood, or any significant financial change?

In this episode, I sit down with Tony Steuer, Author and Host of The Get Ready Podcast. Tony shares his perspective on why so many people freeze when facing financial decisions and how reframing your relationship with money, treating it like learning a new language, can transform confusion into confidence. We discuss practical steps for getting organized, recognizing red flags in advice you receive, and giving yourself permission to ask for help without shame.

Tune in to learn:

  • Why acknowledging overwhelm is the essential first step before making any financial decisions
  • The concept of financial fluency and how treating money like a new language removes shame from the learning process
  • Red flags that signal potentially harmful financial advice, including time pressure and isolation tactics
  • Simple organizational steps to inventory your financial life and understand what you actually have
  • How working with fee-based insurance consultants can provide unbiased reviews of existing policies
  • And more!

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